personalities

they say boys mature more slowly... now that i think abt it... its true... and maybe the fact that people claim i'm more mature for my age doesnt help too... how fast ppl mature will depend on your experiences and personality i guess. arghs boys seem sooooo immature. it really doesnt help when the bench mark i have seems to be too high (compared to other boys of the same age). i think my mentor is an exception bah. even when he is childish i still think its quite ok... whereas some ppl who is the same age as him are contstantly very childish. like maybe they are just the more talkative, gossip loving type... or watever. but really depends a lot on personality i think. a no. of boys i met are quite/very mature too. and yes i've actually met quite a no. of boys my age who are very mature, handle their responsiblities very well, are trustworthy... able to handle situations well. in chinese i would say they have good ban shi nen li, together with the fac that they are actually very mature. this is in contrast to some other guys... esp this guy whom as usual i will not mention the name or even make it obvious who he is. while he can be serious, i think he jokes too much... like adding too much lame jokes into what is supposed to be a rather serious occasion. and ban shi nen li cannot quite make it also. and he's not too young anymore, and more importantly his role requires him to be more serious.... really hope he improves..... otherwise...... shant say it and give his identity away.

other ppl have no sense of occasion... behaving noisly/childishly/distractingly when the situation calls for a more serious mood... of cos i must say that some girls can be quite/equally childish, just as some boys are also very mature. oh well. i've come to accept that my mentor is one of his kind... just as the numerous friends i met in jc. sad that they got NS so we wont really meet in uni... those guys i met in my cca are really nice boys i'd like to keep in touch with. hopefully someday we will meet again bah. okies that's all for today.